Are You Ready for a Baby?

Are you ready for a baby?

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You may be thinking about the possibility of having your first child or if you’re already a mother, you may be pondering if the time is right for you to add another egg to your nest. While parenthood is often unexpected, many women and their partners choose to plan and prepare for it. If this is the option that you’ve decided to take, kudos to you because doing so can make things a lot easier during your pregnancy and for the entire life of your child. In order to plan effectively, there are a few things you should take into consideration.

Healthcare

During your pregnancy, prenatal exams are vital to your health and to the health of your baby. These exams may be as frequent as once or twice every few months starting out with the frequency increasing as your pregnancy progresses. As you approach your due date, they may be as frequent as once or twice per week. If you have healthcare, make sure that it will cover your pregnancy. If you don’t currently have coverage, be sure to research all options that are available prior to your pregnancy. Getting stuck with a huge bill is not a good way to start growing your family.

Costs

Of course, there is also a need to consider the costs that you will face after your child is born. We all know that raising children is expensive over the long haul, but the day-to-day demands can definitely take a toll as well. From diapers, to clothes, to formula, the expenses that children require can be devastating to your bank account. Ask yourself how you are currently managing financially and if there is room for improvement, make the needed changes immediately. Maybe working added hours in order to pay off current bills or eliminating any unnecessary purchases is a good place to start. There are also many financial assistance programs available, but they should never be depended on as a sole source of assistance. Honestly, if you’re already having a hard time making ends meet, then chances are that buying diapers won’t make life any easier.

Living Conditions

Do you own your own home or do you rent? Many prefer to purchase their home prior to having a child because they believe it’s more affordable. Regardless of your stand on buying or renting, the biggest question to ask yourself is do you have enough room for your new bundle of joy. It’s true that many mothers opt to keep their babies in the same room with them for a while, but there will come a time when they will grow up and you will want them out! Having a room for baby can also be important to their developing more independence and learning how to adapt to change. If there isn’t enough space currently, it’s probably a good idea to reevaluate your current living arrangement before you become pregnant. Moving is never fun, but it can be considerably more stressful when you have a few extra pounds to carry around while also trying to move all your worldly possessions.

Are You and Your Partner on the Same Page?

The last issue to consider may seem like the most obvious but believe it or not it does get overlooked. When planning to have a baby, it is important to ensure that you and the father have the same views on raising children and are both ready to have a baby. The huge demand for sperm donors in our country indicates that many women are choosing to be single mothers and are doing so successfully, but most choose to have a child with a man they love and hope to be with for the rest of their lives. This is an important decision because for the child to have the best life possible, the father is important and is needed to provide financial and emotional support and love to the child.  Whether you and your partner are married or have been together for a long time, this decision is one of the most important you will ever make together. Ideally, if you are on the same path and have like goals in mind, it will be an easy choice that you’ll both be happy about. If not, it is easier and better to find out that this is an area where your goals differ and you can make a decisions on moving on together or apart.

The issues discussed here are just a few of the many that may cross your mind when deciding if the time is right for you to have a baby. Talking with other parents, your healthcare provider, reading parenting magazines and other articles like this one online all provide a wealth of information to help you make the right choice for your life and the life of the baby you’re contemplating.

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Diathe Garnes

Author Diathe Garnes resides in VA. She believes that there are lessons in even the worst situations in life that can bring inspiration and growth to those who are willing to look a little deeper. She hopes that her writing will bring awareness to the uplifting sides of life's challenges to encourage better living to all who read her work.